Skye Eddy reflects on her journey with her daughter, noting,
“I had to work through that, and I knew that I needed help in order to keep her passionate about the game because the way that I was showing up for her was not helping her, but I didn't really understand her because she was not like me.”
Startups are so often started following the founder’s personal struggle, journey or realisation. For Skye, her statement underscores a critical point: just because a parent has a passion for sports does not mean their child will resonate with the same approach or motivation.
As parents you bring your experiences and expectations into your children’s sporting lives, assuming that what worked for you will work for them. This creates a disconnect, especially if the child’s temperament, interests, or needs differ from those of the parent. Skye’s insights highlight the importance of recognising that your child may not be like you, and adapting your support is essential for keeping their passion alive.
Soccer Parenting is a community whose goal is to inspire players by empowering parents. Such a powerful platform that promotes a more collaborative environment between coaches, parents, clubs and players to support and improve player development. Their mission aligns with 2ndwind’s own focus on holistic support–building these strong foundations is essential for helping players grow and succeed in the long run.
Tune into the full episode to get Skye’s full story on this and her business.
Here’s what you can do right now:
Build Emotional Awareness: Pay attention to your child's reactions during and after games and competitions. Do they seem happy, stressed, or frustrated? Use these observations to adjust your approach.
Customise Your Support: Every child is different. Talk to your child about what motivates them and how they'd like to be supported in their sports journey.
Ask for Guidance: If you're unsure how to support your child, reach out for expert advice and guidance.
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